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Five Things

Welcome to my blog titled ‘Five Things’ where you can expect just that–five random musings or reflections from the previous month. I’ll also share a quote I find meaningful as a point of focus. For photos of my books, kids, pets, and miscellaneous things I find interesting, you can follow me on Instagram @tabithalord.

So here are this month’s five things, starting with the quote…

  1. “The distance between what is said and what is known to be true has become an abyss. Of all the things at risk, the loss of an objective reality is perhaps the most dangerous. The death of truth is the ultimate victory of evil. When truth leaves us, when we let it slip away, when it is ripped from our hands we become vulnerable to the appetite of whatever monster screams the loudest.” - Mon Mothma, Andor, Season 2

  2. It’s October already! Fall has always been my most productive writing season, and despite it feeling like summer here in SoCal, the rhythm seems to be holding. My goal is to finish the final novel in a romantic suspense series written by my alter ego, Maggie Clare. It’s definitely time to bring this series to an end, but it’s always bittersweet to leave behind a world I’ve built and the characters who inhabit it. Once this latest draft is done and dusted, I have several more unpublished manuscripts, most of which I finished while in school, and which include my thesis novel, to coax into the world. I’ll keep you updated on my progress!

  3. My new favorite weekend writing habit is to bring my dog and my computer to the cafe down the street and sit for hours sipping on the bottomless mimosas they serve with brunch. There is a quote mistakenly attributed to Hemingway which says, “Write drunk, edit sober.” Regardless of its origin, I am definitely taking that advice seriously.

  4. I live only about an hour from the Pacific ocean now, which is a rather intimidating ocean. I rarely feel like it’s safe to swim in it, unlike the Atlantic where I grew up, but I persist in my efforts. Saturday, I took a drive up to Carpinteria where my sister and her husband rent a beachside condo for a month at a time, twice per year. We spent a glorious day swimming, yes swimming, in the Pacific. Afterwards, we wandered into town and explored the Avocado Festival, which featured local crafts and food and booze, and lots and lots of music. So far, fall in SoCal has been pretty great.

  5. A couple of weeks ago, a few friends and I got tickets to see Isabel Allende speak at the Wilshire Ebell Theater. I started reading her books when I was in my twenties, and made it through most of her extensive catalogue over the years. She is a force to be reckoned with–a brilliant, feisty woman with a wicked sense of humor whose body of work is stunning for both its historical relevance and its storytelling genius. Isabel Allende is eighty-four now, and I feel so honored to have simply been in her presence for a few special hours!

Five Things - March 2, 2026

Welcome to my blog titled ‘Five Things’ where you can expect just that - five random musings or reflections from the previous week or so. I’ll also share a quote I find meaningful as a point of focus for the week. For photos of my books, kids, pets, and miscellaneous things I find interesting, you can follow me on Instagram @tabithalord.

So here are this week’s five things, starting with the quote of the week…

  1. "Older men declare war. But it is the youth that must fight and die." - Herbert Hoover

  2. One of my favorite things about our new home is that we are about an hour from the beach and thirty minutes from the mountains. In the span of a week, we’ve visited both! Daisy enjoyed playing in the snow and in the sand, and we got to appreciate the varied, beautiful landscapes that make up southern California.

  3. I’m on the homestretch of editing my thesis novel. The ending is written, and I’m satisfied with it, but I’m still tweaking what I call the ‘after action’ stuff. With such an emotionally taxing, action-filled saga, I want to make sure my readers feel satisfied when they hit the end, yet are still left with enough curiosity that they’ll be excited for the second book. It’s a delicate balance, and I really want to get it right!

  4. Yesterday, I visited the Huntington Gardens with a friend. The locals have all highly recommended it, and I wasn’t disappointed. The Japanese Gardens were particularly lovely, with plenty of space to sit and appreciate the beauty and peace that sometimes only nature can provide.

  5. So, there are parrots in Pasadena! I’ve heard a few theories on how these non-native birds made their home in suburbia. Some folks think the rather impressive flock of over 2000 are the descendants of escaped pets, but one of the most interesting bits of local lore surrounds a man named Hal Simpson. I found more on this theory, which is my favorite, in an article by Aaron Rickle Jones in the LA Field Guide …

Hal started Simpson’s Garden Town Nursery in East Pasadena in 1928 with a $500 loan and a wide variety of interests. Over the next forty years, it would grow to become the largest and most diversified garden center in Los Angeles, hosting a plant nursery, lawnmower shop, materials shop, garden supply center, florist, and a pet store. Tragedy struck Simpsons in 1959 when an electrical fire started in the pet store and threatened to annihilate the entire facility. Rather than watch dozens of exotic animals burn alive, firefighters and a pet store employee scrambled to open the cages and unwittingly changed the course of Pasadena history as 70 parrots took to the Southern California skies.

Five Things - October 27, 2025

Welcome to my blog titled ‘Five Things’ where you can expect just that - five random musings or reflections from the previous week or so. I’ll also share a quote I find meaningful as a point of focus for the week. For a photo gallery of our life on the road, our pets, and miscellaneous things I find interesting, you can follow me on Instagram @tabithalord.

So here are this week’s five things, starting with the quote of the week…

  1. "History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again." - Maya Angelou

  2. Since I’ve recovered from my nasty cold, Ray and I have resumed our Friday ‘date day’ adventures. Last week, we visited the Natural History Museum of Los Angeles, which was every bit as cool as the one in NYC. I’ve taken to calling it the Cat Museum because of the amazing special exhibit on, yes, cats. Most of you know I am a cat lover. In fact, I am practicing to become a crazy cat lady sometime in the near future, so I was very excited for this exhibit, and it did not disappoint!

  3. This friday, we visited the Getty Villa in the Palisades. The bigger Getty museum, located just off the 405, houses a vast collection of artwork, and the Getty Villa houses the antiquities collection. Built to replicate an actual Roman villa destroyed by Mount Vesuvius, the structure itself is a work of art, and we spent hours exploring the treasures within. Having earned my undergrad degree in Classics, I enjoyed this exhibit almost as much as I did the one with the cats!

  4. Taking a full day off has been something of a challenge, as I imagine it is for anyone working remotely or who has a non-traditional type of job. On the one hand, being able to work anytime, anywhere gives me a flexibility I truly enjoy. If I want to go see the cat exhibit on Friday, I can work on Saturday morning instead. Unplugging completely, however, has proven difficult, but this Sunday, I really wanted to spend the day at the beach. Yes, here in sunny SoCal, it’s still pleasant enough to spend an afternoon with toes in the water and a sun hat on! It felt good to turn off my brain for a little while and just enjoy the day.

  5. Later this week, we’ll be leaving Northridge, which is north LA county, very close to two of our boys, and heading to Orange. The RV park where we stay is just about five minutes from our oldest son and daughter-in-law. It will be nice to be near them for a couple of weeks, and we’ve already made Halloween plans together. When we lived in RI, our Halloween parties were legendary, and the holiday always held special meaning for Ray and me since it’s the anniversary of both our first date and the day we got engaged. It’s certainly a fun day to celebrate!